Monday, February 9, 2015

A Brand New Year!

Happy New Year! 2014 was a busy year...the high light of which was the birth of our precious daughter Elsie. We are so happy to be parents and love her more every day! Adoption may not always be a smooth path, but it is so worth it and an amazing experience.

Looking forward now, we are excited for what adventures may come. 2015 is going to be great!

Elsie opened her Christmas presents from Grandma and Grandpa Parker in January since we didn't see them for Christmas. Elsie loved tearing up the wrapping paper and sucking on every toy and item of clothing she received. "Thanks for the great presents, Gma and Gpa!"


Just taking a little reading break before getting dressed for bed. This cracks me up when she does this. It looks like she's really reading to herself. She'll just stay like that for like a minute, examining the page thoroughly. I've got a little book worm on my hands.


Though she's not much of a shower fan, Elsie is really starting to love bath time. Mostly because she gets to suck on her rubber ducky the whole time. Ahhh, the good life!

Playing in Mom and Dad's room while we all get ready for the day. She loves watching me blow dry and hair and put makeup on. And it's a treat when I let her hold mascara or something. It's so funny how my stuff if more fun that her toys usually. Silly little girly girl.


"What? I can sit on the couch like a big person."
"And I can work an iPhone. No biggy. I'm a smarty pants already."

Pretty in shocking pink!                              Cutest little sleepy face you ever saw!

She started saying "Mama ma ma ma ma" this month but she babbles a lot and I'm not sure she associates it with me yet. But soon enough, she's gonna be a little chatter box, I think.

This girl loves her daddy! She loves when she gets that undivided attention so she can pat his face, pinch his nose, pull on his shirt strings/buttons and laugh and the funny noises he makes. He can really get her laughing. She has started laughing a lot more now and doesn't make us work so hard for it anymore. She's a pretty happy girl most of the time.

"Hey, Dad! Turn off your phone and look at me!"
"Yeah! Let me touch your wiskers."

I love making Elsie head bands and bows. Just experimenting with an old T-shirt. I don't think she likes this one....a little too Harley Davidson I think... LOL!

Keeping herself busy on the floor in the craft room while I make bows. She's really pretty good at entertaining herself for a while.

"Here, let me help you organized these papers. I'll put some in my mouth and throw the rest on the ground. Is that what you needed, Dad?"

The little busy body is a hard sleeper when it comes time for naps and bedtime. She values her shut-eye just like her mamma.

Playing (stealing toys from each other) with Korbin at church. Very distracting children...too cute not to watch them instead of listening to the speakers most of the time.

Elsie has started getting a little more clingy at times and needing her mom/dad to cuddle her especially when we meet new people. She's still pretty friendly and doesn't freak out right away, but it feels good to know she prefers me and Mike to anyone else. The feeling is mutual Babe! LOVE!

That little pointy tongue is always out....hahaha....I can't get enough!

A very warm winter outfit for Elsie from Gma Sara. She's only worn it once though...it has been an uncommonly warm winter here in Utah! She looks like a little Russian doll in this cute coat and hat!

Elsie loves going to the mail box with Auntie Stephy. She gets so excited and kicks her feet as soon as the door opens to go outside.
 

Elsie is eating pretty much everything now. She loves black beans and bread and cherrios and sweet potatoes and blueberries and anything off of Mom and Dad's plates. Any little thing she can put into her little hand and then chew with 2 teeth. She definitely prefers to feed herself rather than be spoon fed though. She can be very independent at times.

I crocheted this little infinity scarf for her. She looks like a little woman in her sweater and scarf. :)
 All set to go outside for a walk....but this laundry basket full of blankets and toys is fun too! She looks like a little marshmallow.

 I got to be Steph's model for a new eyelash application technique she was learning. It's nice to not have to worry about eye makeup and know that your lashes are long and black and curled without any effort.

I still have a lot of peaches and the year is going by quickly. It'll be August/Sept again before we know it! So I got out a bunch of peach jars and some raspberries from Costco and made more jam...it turned out the best it ever has! Yay! I'm getting better at this domestic canning/cooking stuff!
 Elsie turned 9 months on January 25th! I can't believe how the time has flown by! She is 17#9oz, 26.5"long and has 2 bottom teeth so far. Her hair is getting longer and curlier every day. She laughs a lot and says Mamamama when she wants something from anyone, HAHA. She is a great eater and a great sleeper. She had a cough for months, but it's getting better slowly. Over all she is healthy and happy and got her last set of shots until her 1 year check up. She didn't really like her appt, but did great!

 

Elsie got a new girl cousin on 1/26/15. Mike's little sister Sarah had her first baby: Harper Jean Ruzicka. She's beautiful! We are so excited to meet her when they come visit next time (they live in Texas).

 




These two hung out for a couple hours so that Mike and I could go on a real date one night. We saw the BYU Vocal Point accapella group perform in Salt Lake, and we got some dinner at CPK. Fun! It's so nice having Stephanie around, and she loves tending Elsie so much that we often have to remind her that she's OUR child. Hehe!



My friend started a little support group for people with infertility issues, and we all had dinner one night this month. I'm in a good place with this issue myself, having been able to adopt so quickly after our failed IVF adventure. We're happy with the way we are building our family and most of the time I don't even mind that I'll probably never experience pregnancy. But I do have my moments, and that will probably never completely go away. I know that Lord will send me my children in the way He has intended and when He has planned. I didn't always feel this way though. I went through dark times just like any woman who struggles with infertility. It was really great to meet all of these women, hear their stories and hear what they've learned or are trying to learn on their journeys. We all had pretty different stories, yet could relate to a very similar feeling of loss in our lives. It was very upbeat and fun and we joked and laughed about things that others might not have laughed at; but you have to laugh at some things just to keep from crying-and we all understood that well. It's always nice to meet people who totally understand what you've gone through or are going through. It makes you feel like you're not alone in your suffering. And I don't think it's an accident that when we go through a trial, we end up meeting many other people going through that exact trial - so that we can help each other through it, and be reminded that others, including our Savior know what we're feeling and we are not alone. 

We're going to keep meeting every month and just catch up, have a girls night, let go of whatever is stressing us at the time and help each other cope and find the resources we need at that time. A really brilliant idea by my friend Erin and I'm so happy to be a part of it! The more that merrier, so if you know of anyone in need of this specific support/sisterhood, let me know!

HO HO HO! Merry 1st Christmas!

I found this cute little skinny, white Christmas tree on sale last year after Christmas and just had to make it into a snowman this year. 
Thanks Mom for the cute craft/decoration. It say's "Give Thanks" on the other side.


Yay for random naked baby pictures:


Coordinating cousin outfits. Love those pleated girls!



Check out my new cute booties!They look best without pants...hehe!

Time for church. Dressing her up never gets old! I love having a girl!

Sweet little goodbyes before Daddy goes to work in the morning. They are so cute together.

She doesn't even mind. She thinks it's fun to sit in and get pushed around in the laundry basket

Playing at the neighbors with her friend Maya while Mommy is at work. They like to pass toys back and forth and babble to each other. We love the Miller family!


Just doing some stretches while she watches TV. So flexible! She moves through the splits to get to her tummy and roll around. Silly girl. So big - holds her own bottle and feeds herself finger foods.

Eating again. Yum yum

We had Steph babysit while we went to Mike's work Christmas party one night. It was fun to get dressed up and eat and talk with grown ups, but I missed my little buddy Elsie a lot! I have separation anxiety, even if she doesn't yet. LOL!

Elsie loves to "help" me with the laundry by pulling everything out of the basket one thing at a time. Then I put it all back in and she starts over...keeps her busy for quite a while. So funny!


Some old high school friends have ended up in the area or not too far away, and we were able to get together for a little breakfast party with our kids and a few husbands too. These girls are life long friends and I love them to bits! I only with the other bunch of us could have been there too for this little HS reunion date. (Left to right: Kathryn, Cayly, Leah, Holly, and me)
Little sleeping angel                                           "Smiling's my favorite!"
 

"Just mail me to Grandma's!"                          "I'll drive!"

For Christmas break, the whole Madsen family got to be together, and it was so fun! There's no one I'd rather spend time with than the crazy, funny, wonderful family I came from!

Morning snuggles with Grandpa:

Hey, what's with the flash?!       Baby Cousin Besties! Together again!

Jude loves to help with cookies! Aunty Julia is the best babysitter!



She wasn't quite sure what to do in this jumper, but hopefully it will help her decide to start using her legs. She doesn't like to push on them or put weight on them. She'd rather sit, kick, lie down and roll. "Standing....no thanks!"

Eating is her favorite thing to do! Double fisting the pizza crust right here....go girl!


Over the holidays, I got to reunite with my childhood friends, Sydney and Daniel. Daniel has 2 kids and Sydney is holding her niece. So fun to see each other again and play with these cute little kiddos.


We're not twins, but it's amazing how there are still similarities between Elsie and me and even Julia. She also looks a fair amount like Mike and some of my Parker nieces. Crazy how that happens even when adopting. She for sure looks like her birth mom and birth siblings, though. Can't question that!

lefts (Me), rights (Elsie)



Throw back pictures of me and my baby sister Julia. Such a cutie pie!
I think she looks more like Elsie as a baby than anyone....weird.


I couldn't resist a little cookie decorating before Christmas.


Family Tennis and close-ups that nobody enjoyed.



"Me like mash potatoes!"


How many people does it take to get a good picture of two babies? Answer: too many. So cute in their little bibs though:



Elsie loves Stephanie's giant mug. 


It's Christmas!....and they're happy with chapstick and candy wrappers.

Grandma Sara with Elsie and Adele - best Christmas presents ever!

Cousin Josh likes to hold Elsie too, but only if he can watch TV at the same time.

Auntie Stephy keeps Elsie so stylish with painted toe nails (works best when she's asleep).

Cutest little back-side shot of little Adele. She's got so much personality! Grandpa loves his granddaughters! They wore matching dresses for Christmas Sunday church. (Pictures of that to come once my dad coughs them up).


Movie time with my little munchkin. I love when she lets me snuggle with her!



Cousin play time. They are so cute together. And pretty good at sharing their toys.


Dinner at 5 Guys...my favorite! Elsie always has someone's hands on her....she doesn't seem to mind though.  Look at that adorable profile shot! I love her face so much!!!



I'm so grateful for MY little family! Mike and I have been so blessed this year to add Elsie to our family, and we can't describe the total joy we feel now that we are parents. LOVE! FAMILY! This is what it's all about!